Choosing a Class: Self Defense?
Fitness? Or Fun?
A thoughtful journey leads to the right choice.
By
Alex Iglecia
Published in the Boston Women's Journal
“I want to do something practical. I’ve done
martial arts, but I just want to know how to defend
myself.” This describes the intent of most adults
who come to the POWER. TO PROTECT program, formerly
known as Genuine Bussey Style. The other half
has never touched a martial art, but wants to
have practical defensive abilities. I want you
to have the tools you need to decide what kind
of class is best for you, and for you to pursue
that class for the right reasons.
I am biased and I will be the first to admit
it. When it comes to martial arts, I respect the
skill, talent and ability of many styles. I’ve
practiced traditional arts before choosing to
take a more practical approach to my training.
When it comes to personal defense and practical
applications, I have tough standards. While I
have many good friends who are having a great
time kicking, punching, sparring, I’ve also known
many men and women who simply haven’t trained
in a realistic way and take their classes for
the wrong reasons.
Ready for a few simple questions? Let’s go!
Q. Why do I want to take this class?
Fitness? Sport? Competition? To get in touch
with tradition? Learn another culture? Health?
Religion? To star in the movies? To learn to defend
myself?
Your options will offer some of these benefits
with varying emphasis. Know what your top goal
and match it to the main focus of the class. If
your goal was to get fitter and increase your
endurance/flexibility, and you didn’t want much
contact, your best bet might be a cardio kickboxing
class or one that emphasizes forms/kata.
If your goal is to defend yourself, and you wanted
challenge and fitness and fun, you’ll have few
real options, but they’re out there. Something
to consider are Fatal Tendencies (habits that
form from practicing moves that are not realistic.
When these defenses are attempted under the pressure
of real threat, the results can be deadly.) If
a defense class resembles the Karate Kid, or students
are spending a lot of time perfecting a rigid
stance or block, you’re probably seeing Fatal
Tendencies. Find something that your common sense
tells you is practical and that fits your style
while gently pushing your comfort zones to grow.
Q. What is the class like? The instructor? The
students?
Get to know the instructor by phone, or email,
or in person. Most will be nice enough to spend
time with you and will not hard sell you. Watch
a class. Is the instructor friendly? Encouraging?
Informal? Respectful? Traditional? Militaristic?
Commanding? He or she may be a combination of
the above qualities. Listen to your intuition.
Finally, talk to the students after watching them
practice. What do they get out of the training?
What keeps them coming back? Do their goals match
your goals?
Q. How much time do I want to put
into training?
Days, weeks, months, years? Many people start
out in a class for one reason or another and stay
for different reasons. I might start a Tai Chi
class for relaxation and find that my body is
feeling so much better that I’ll keep practicing.
Some self defense classes will be run in a day
or less, some in 20+ hours in a matter of a few
weeks. On the other hand, martial artists often
practice for years, integrating art with lifestyle.
In the case of my students, they come for personal
defense but often stay because, “it’s a great
workout, the people are great, the music is good,
and I’m learning stuff that’s really practical.”
Remember: you can always wade in, have fun, and
leave when you need to. Know yourself and what
you want and you’ll find a class that’s right
for you.